If you are curious about Shibari rope-based partner practices but unsure where to begin, this class is designed for you.

Getting Started with Rope is a beginner-friendly, structured introduction to Shibari that focuses on safety, consent, communication, and foundational rope concepts. You do not need prior experience. You do not need prior experience or familiarity with rope-based practices. You just need curiosity and a willingness to learn.

This class exists to remove confusion, reduce anxiety, and give you a clear, grounded understanding of how rope is practiced safely and respectfully within our community.

What This Class Is

This is a 2-hour guided introduction to rope-based partner practices and the surrounding community that explains not only how it is used, but also why, how people communicate around it, and how to participate responsibly.

You will leave with a clear understanding of what safe rope rope-based practice looks like, how consent and negotiation work in real life, and how to confidently enter rope-focused spaces without feeling lost or out of place.

Who This Class Is For

• Adults who are curious about Shibari rope-based partner practices
  
• People who want structure, safety, and clear expectations
• Couples, partners, friends, and individuals attending on their own
• Anyone who wants to learn rope correctly instead of guessing from the internet
• No prior experience is required.

What You Will Learn

• Core rope safety and anatomy awareness
• How consent and communication actually work in rope settings
• How people negotiate boundaries before, during, and after rope
• Why rope is used and what makes it meaningful beyond technique
• How to participate in rope spaces with confidence and clarity

This class is designed to answer the questions people often feel embarrassed to ask and to give you a shared baseline of knowledge with everyone else in the room.

About the Instructors

This class is taught by Dan and Renee, founders of All Tied Up San Diego and rope educators since 2015.

They have taught thousands of students over the years and are known for creating a learning environment that is clear, respectful, supportive, and beginner-focused. This class has been refined and taught consistently for more than a decade.

More than 350 five-star reviews reflect the experience people have had starting their rope journey here.

Optional LAB Practice Hour

After the class, there is an optional LAB practice hour.

The LAB is a guided, beginner-friendly space where you can practice basic rope concepts using the included Online Bonus Materials. Instructors and assistants are present to answer questions and offer support.

Participation is always optional. You may observe, practice at your own pace, or choose not to participate at all. There is no pressure.

Online Bonus Materials Included

Your registration includes over 90 minutes of online videos you can review before or after class, including:

• Rope types and safety tools
• How to negotiate touch and boundaries
• The Single and Double Column Tie
• An arms free chest harness
• What to expect at rope events

These materials are designed to reinforce what you learn and give you something to return to later.

What to Bring

A government issued ID for waiver and check in
No rope is required for the class itself
If you plan to attend the LAB, bring rope and a safety cutter

What to Wear

Wear clothing that feels comfortable and allows you to sit, stand, and move.

For those being tied during LAB, form-fitting clothing works best and helps the rope sit correctly on the body. Sports bras are recommended. Loose or bulky clothing can interfere with the placement of the rope. Clothing choice is optional during LAB. Participation choices are always personal.

For those tying, wear anything you are comfortable moving in.

Location

Central San Diego County
The exact address is shared after registration

Cost

$30 dollars per person with online registration
$40 dollars per person at the door

The lower price rewards advance registration and helps us plan staffing and materials.

What Comes Next

Completing Getting Started with Rope makes you eligible to attend all other All Tied Up San Diego events, including Rope LABs, ROMPs, and weekend intensives.

Everyone in those spaces has taken this same class. You are never walking into the unknown alone.

What Others Say

“I learned more in one night here than in eleven years in the scene.”
Calypso

“I learned so much in just a few hours. Dan and Renee made me and my wife feel extremely comfortable. We are looking forward to more events.”
Tony

Our Guarantee

If you complete the class and feel it did not deliver on its promises, let us know. We offer a 100 percent money-back guarantee.

Come curious.
Leave confident.

Let’s get you All Tied Up safely, consensually, and with joy.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Hello Ropester!

Intimacy and connection can take many forms. This advanced workshop explores how rope-based positioning can support communication, coordination, and connection between partners in a structured and intentional way.

The class focuses on:
• Safe and sustainable positioning techniques
• Communication and consent within intimate settings
• Body awareness and partner coordination

This is a structured, educational session. No sexual activity occurs during the class.

Participation is limited to individuals who have completed prerequisite training to ensure safety and readiness.

You must have taken the Getting Started Class to take this class.

Limited spots available! Reserve your spot to continue developing your skills in a structured and supportive environment. Book today!

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Dress to Impress - Fantasy Celebration!

- 7:00 PM to 1:00 AM 
- Location shared with paid attendees

This won’t be your typical night. We’re pulling out all the stops for an unforgettable evening filled with style, connection, and play. 

- Dress to impress in your Fantasy Ball or BEAST best. It’s your chance to shine.

- Food, music, and community. More than just rope, a full evening to celebrate YOU!

This is a private membership party.

- Member Tickets: $75 per person for those who meet the qualified member prerequisite. 

Non-Member Tickets

- Non-Member Tickets:  $75 per person for non-members who agree to purchase and attend the required prerequisite class before the event. No exceptions. (additional purchase required)

- Advance sales only — no tickets at the door.

- Doors close at 8:45 PM sharp (no refunds for late entry).

- Ticket sales end 24 hours before the event.

You must have taken the Getting Started Class to attend this party.

Dress in Your Fantasy Best to Impress! Come to Party! Bring rope. Bring intention. Leave with a shared experience.

Space is limited.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Welcome to the Black Rose Society: Hearts of Obsidian

A Dark Circus Menagerie Gathering

Some hearts bloom in sunlight . . . others are forged in fire.

The Black Rose Society: Hearts of Obsidian is an immersive, in-person play party for adults who already understand consent, etiquette, and intentional interaction. Set just before Valentine’s Day, this gathering offers a structured, respectful environment designed for exploration, presence, and connection on your own terms.

This is a participation focused evening with monitored play spaces, calm energy, and clear expectations. You arrive, you settle into the space, and you choose how you engage. 

This is not romance by obligation.
This is not a spectacle for the crowd.
This is a space for those who know that desire deepens when it is chosen.

What You Are Stepping Into

Beyond the threshold lies a candlelit environment designed for adults seeking depth without pressure. This is a held container with active facilitation, visible support, and a pace that allows you to breathe.

Inside, you will find intentionally designed play areas, atmospheric elements, and clear pathways through the space so you can move comfortably, observe freely, and engage when and how you choose.

Some will watch.

Some will wander.

Some will connect in ways that unfold naturally.

Nothing is required. Everything is optional. Everything is intentional.

The Dark Circus Menagerie Difference

Dark Circus Menagerie events have been cultivated over time to balance freedom with structure. This is not a free for all and it is not chaotic energy. The environment is actively held by experienced facilitators who support consent, communication, and accountability throughout the night.

If you have attended previous Menagerie gatherings, you already know the rhythm. If this is your first, expect clarity, consistency, and a culture that allows you to relax into the experience rather than manage it.

This is a gathering for adults who already know how to move through kink spaces with respect.
Those who negotiate clearly.
Those who honor a no as much as a yes.
Those who value tension, restraint, and consent as part of the experience. 

You do not need to perform or prove anything here.

Prerequisite: If you have completed the Getting Started Class and show up grounded and accountable, you already considered a member and belong in this room.

If not, you must complete that class prior to the event.

 It is for those with Hearts of Obsidian

Obsidian is born from heat and time. It is sharp, reflective, and resilient.
This night honors hearts that know their edges and carry intention. Hearts that choose depth over convenience and connection over impulse. 

What to Wear

Dress as if you belong to a private society that gathers after dusk. 
Black roses, velvet, lace, leather, corsetry, tailored suits, masks, gloves, boots, and meaningful adornments are encouraged.
Dress with purpose. 
Dress with presence.
Dress to be seen, or to disappear into shadow.
(Note: dress code is recommended, not required)

This Experience Is For You If

• You value consent as an active practice
• You enjoy sensual environments without expectation
• You prefer calm energy over chaos
• You want to participate at your own pace
• You appreciate well-run, respectful kink spaces

 Solo attendees, couples, and constellation connections are welcome. There is no expectation to pair off and no pressure to engage beyond what feels right for you.

What This Night Is Not

This is not a nightclub.

This is not a dating event.

This is not voyeuristic chaos.

There is no entitlement to attention.

There is no obligation to play.

There is no pressure to perform.

Presence is enough.

Important Details

• 18+ event (no alcohol served)

• Dress code is recommended, but not required, to maintain the tone of the space

• Consent and etiquette are mandatory throughout the night

• Attendance is capped to preserve comfort and flow

• Required waivers must be completed in advance

• Tickets will not be available at the door

If you have questions about dress code or expectations, guidance is available in advance so you can arrive confident and prepared.

Your Invitation

If you value structure as much as freedom.

If you prefer depth over distraction.

If you appreciate a space that knows how to hold people well.

Accepting this invitation means joining a carefully held evening designed to support presence, exploration, and choice.

The Black Rose Society opens its doors . . . and those with Hearts of Obsidian await.

Space is limited.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Special Valentine’s Rope Event: Decorative Rope

It’s Knot About Knots… And It Is About Knots
Creating Beautiful Images on a Human Canvas

Tuesday, February 10th, 2026
Instructional Time: 7:00 PM to 9:00 PM
Optional Open Rope Time: 9 PM to 10 PM
Doors open at 6:30 PM
Doors close at 6:50 PM (no refunds if you miss the door)

There is something powerful about taking a simple strand of rope and using it to highlight the beauty of the person you are tying.

Decorative rope is not just about technique. It is about intention, placement, tension, rhythm, and seeing the body as a canvas rather than a puzzle to solve. This special Valentine’s themed class is designed for those who want to move beyond functional ties and begin creating rope that feels visually striking, emotionally intentional, and undeniably beautiful.

Instruction will be led by SirKnottyDan, with special Co-Instructors, Riggerus & Chris-Can-Knot

In this class, we will explore the key elements that transform a tie from nice to truly beautiful. You will learn how line, symmetry, contrast, color, and framing work together to enhance the natural shape of the body and elevate the overall aesthetic of your rope work. We will focus on creative and decorative approaches that prioritize visual impact while maintaining safety, communication, and care.

This is a hands-on class intended for partnered practice. You must bring a partner to attend. All participants must have previously completed the Getting Started Class.

Individuals may audit the class, but not participate in the tying.

What to Bring

Colored rope is encouraged, nylon works beautifully for this class, though jute or hemp are also welcome
A safety cutter
Mats and blanket(s)
Any personal comfort items you may need

Important Details

Location: Kearny Mesa Area of San Diego, CA
Venue is on the first floor and is ADA accessible

Prerequisite
You must have attended the Getting Started Class to participate.

Refund Policy
There are no refunds if you miss the door.
If you are unable to attend due to emergency, illness, or COVID, your ticket will be refunded as a credit toward a future event if you contact us before the start of the event.

This class is about slowing down, seeing your partner differently, and using rope as a tool for connection and creative expression. Whether you are celebrating Valentine’s Day together or simply want to deepen your rope aesthetic, this evening is an opportunity to create something intentional, beautiful, and shared.

Thank you for taking this step with us.
If you have any questions, please reach out.
Let’s have some knotty fun.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Welcome to the Unleashed Party!

A Dark Circus Menagerie Gathering

The leash is off. The instincts are awake. The night is yours to chase.

Unleashed invites you into a playful, high-energy approved supplemental activities event where curiosity runs free and temptation is part of the fun. This is a space where you can step out of the everyday, shake off restraint, and explore the side of yourself that wants to prowl, flirt, play, and celebrate connection.

Dark Circus Menagerie creates a space where wild energy and intentional structure coexist. The space is actively facilitated and monitored so you can relax, let loose, and enjoy the party without losing the safety and communication that keeps play exciting and respectful.

Roam the space. Meet new people. Reconnect with familiar faces. Follow your curiosity wherever it leads, whether that means playful interaction, bold expression, or simply soaking in the electric atmosphere. Nothing is required. Everything is optional. The only expectation is respect, consent, and shared fun.

Dress to match your unleashed side. Fur, tails, leather, collars, playful elegance, or creature-inspired looks are all welcome. Bring personality. Bring mischief. Bring the version of yourself that is ready to celebrate. The dress code is recommended but not required.

If you are ready to let your instincts stretch, your confidence run free, and your playful side take the lead, Unleashed is calling.

Attendance is limited to preserve the experience.

What You Are Stepping Into

Beyond the threshold lies a candlelit environment designed for adults seeking depth without pressure. This is a held container with active facilitation, visible support, and a pace that allows you to breathe.

Inside, you will find intentionally designed play areas, atmospheric elements, and clear pathways through the space so you can move comfortably, observe freely, and engage when and how you choose.

Some will watch.

Some will be unleashed.

Some will connect (or disconnect) in ways that unfold naturally.

Nothing is required. Everything is optional. Everything is intentional.

The Dark Circus Menagerie Difference

Dark Circus Menagerie events have been cultivated over time to balance freedom with structure. This is not a free-for-all, nor is it chaotic energy. The environment is actively held by experienced facilitators who support consent, communication, and accountability throughout the night.

If you have attended previous Menagerie gatherings, you already know the rhythm. If this is your first, expect clarity, consistency, and a culture that allows you to relax into the experience rather than manage it.

This is a gathering for adults who already know how to move through kink spaces with respect.
Those who negotiate clearly.
Those who honor a no as much as a yes.
Those who value tension, restraint, and consent as part of the experience. 

You do not need to perform or prove anything here.

Prerequisite: If you have completed the Getting Started Class and show up grounded and accountable, you already considered a member and belong in this room.

If not, you must complete that class prior to the event.

This Experience Is For You If

• You value consent as an active practice
• You enjoy sensual environments without expectation
• You prefer calm energy over chaos
• You want to participate at your own pace
• You appreciate well-run, respectful kink spaces

 Solo attendees, couples, and constellation connections are welcome. There is no expectation to pair off and no pressure to engage beyond what feels right for you.

What This Night Is Not

This is not a nightclub.

This is not a dating event.

This is not voyeuristic chaos.

There is no entitlement to attention.

There is no obligation to play.

There is no pressure to perform.

Presence is enough.

Important Details

• 18+ event (no alcohol served)

• Dress code is recommended, but not required, to maintain the tone of the space

• Consent and etiquette are mandatory throughout the night

• Attendance is capped to preserve comfort and flow

• Required waivers must be completed in advance

• Tickets will not be available at the door

If you have questions about dress code or expectations, guidance is available in advance so you can arrive confident and prepared.

Your Invitation

If you value structure as much as freedom.

If you prefer depth over distraction.

If you appreciate a space that knows how to hold people well.

Accepting this invitation means joining a carefully held evening designed to support presence, exploration, and choice.

This is a night for herding cats and being feral . . . so be warned!

Space is limited.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Welcome to the Garden Gathering!

A Dark Circus Menagerie Gathering

Curious what grows after dark?

Beyond the garden gate, something lush and dangerous has taken root. Winding vines curl through shadowed paths. Dark growth spreads where indulgence and restraint intertwine. Rare flowers bloom in the dark, vines curling quietly around prickly need.

Garden of Indulgence is an immersive and atmospheric environment where beauty and darkness grow side by side. Step out of the ordinary and wander through a garden of dark elegance, quiet tension, and curiosity.

The Dark Circus Menagerie tends spaces where freedom and structure can grow together. The environment is carefully cultivated so guests can relax, explore at their own pace, and move within the structure of event guidelines and safety protocols, through the garden, knowing the space is well supported .

Roam the garden paths. Reconnect with familiar faces or meet new ones among the shadows and blooms. Participants may engage in activities, observe respectfully from designated areas, or take breaks as needed. Some will simply take in the lush atmosphere.

Nothing is required. Everything is optional. Respect, consent, and presence guide the evening.

Dress to become part of the garden. Dark florals, winding vines, thorns, and nature shaped into something elegant and dangerous are all welcome. The dress code is recommended but not required.

This garden leaves room for everything to grow. Attendance is limited.

What You Are Stepping Into

This is a structured, facilitated environment designed for experienced participants to apply previously learned skills in a calm and well-supported setting.

The space includes:
• Clearly defined activity areas
• Visible supervision and facilitation
• Controlled pathways for movement and engagement

Participants may choose to:
• Engage in structured partner exercises
• Observe respectfully from designated areas
• Take breaks in the social space

Participation is always optional and guided by communication, consent, and adherence to event protocols.

The Dark Circus Menagerie Difference

Dark Circus Menagerie events have been cultivated over time to balance freedom with structure. This is not a free-for-all, nor is it chaotic energy. The environment is actively held by experienced facilitators who support consent, communication, and accountability throughout the night.

If you have attended previous Menagerie gatherings, you already know the rhythm. If this is your first, expect clarity, consistency, and a culture that allows you to relax into the experience rather than manage it.

This is a gathering for adults who already know how to move through our community space with respect.
Those who negotiate clearly.
Those who honor a no as much as a yes.
Those who value tension, restraint, and consent as part of the experience. 

You do not need to perform or prove anything here.

Prerequisite: If you have completed the Getting Started Class and show up grounded and accountable, you are already considered a member and belong in this room.

If not, you must complete that class prior to the event.

This Experience Is For You If

• You value consent as an active practice
• You enjoy immersive environments without expectation
• You prefer calm energy over chaos
• You want to participate at your own pace
• You appreciate well-run, respectful spaces

 Solo attendees, couples, and group connections are welcome. There is no expectation engage beyond what feels right for you.

 What This Night Is Not

This is not a nightclub.

This is not a dating event.

This is not voyeuristic chaos.

There is no entitlement to attention.

There is no obligation to play.

There is no pressure to perform.

Important Details

• Presence is enough.

• All activities remain participant-driven, instructional in nature, and subject to continuous supervision.

• 18+ event (no alcohol served)

• Dress code is recommended, but not required, to maintain the tone of the space

• Consent and etiquette are mandatory throughout the night

• Attendance is capped to preserve comfort and flow

• Required waivers must be completed in advance

• Tickets will not be available at the door

If you have questions about dress code or expectations, guidance is available in advance so you can arrive confident and prepared.

Designated practice area Monitors (DMs) are present to provide oversight, guidance, and ensure that everyone's experience is enjoyable.

Your Invitation

If you are drawn to spaces where indulgence grows in shadow and curiosity can wander freely, the garden gate is open.

Step through and see what grows there after dark.

Space is limited.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

What we’ll cover:

There’s a moment in rope when time blurs, the body trembles, and breath catches, not from fear, but from the sheer thrill of sensation. That moment is no accident. It’s a rush, of endorphins, adrenaline, and connection, and it can be crafted with skill, presence, and rope.

We’ll explore how to build rope-structured partner exercises that deliberately stimulate the body’s natural chemistry, pushing the bottom into altered states, emotional surrender, and full-bodied highs. This is about torture rope with a purpose: calculated, connective, and charged.

You’ll learn:

• How to design rope sessions that provoke endorphin and adrenaline release
• The key placements, tensions, and tempos that shift a structured partner exercise from painful to euphoric
  
• How stress positions, breath, and compression activate the body’s natural chemicals
• Emotional pacing and presence: how to hold someone in the intensity

This is not just about tying hard — it’s about tying smart, with intention and care. We’ll talk safety, calibration, aftercare, and how to wield intensity not as punishment, but as a gift of altered consciousness.

Come ready to explore the sharp edge of sensation and learn how to harness the rush.

Date: Sept 2nd, 2025

Time: 6:45 to 9 PM
Location: The Usual Place

You must have taken the Getting Started Class to take this class.

Bring rope. Bring intention. Leave with an intense experience.

Limited spots available! Reserve your spot now and be prepared to turn intensity into something special. Book today!

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

What we’ll cover:

Join us at All Tied Up San Diego for an exclusive Sadistic Rope Class that delves into the artistry and precision of rope bondage, with a special focus on faces, nipples, and toes.

This session is designed not just for skill enhancement but to explore the depths of connection and communication between partners. With our expert guidance, you'll discover the subtle intricacies that elevate a rope partner exercise from ordinary to unforgettable. Each tie is a conversation, every knot a whisper of intent, and we're here to show you how to make those moments resonate.

Attendance requires a tying partner, ensuring a hands-on, interactive experience.

Don't miss this opportunity to refine your technique, engage in profound partnership dynamics, and unlock a new level of expressiveness in your rope play.

Space is limited

Secure your spot and experience the unmatched thrill of mastering the finer points of rope artistry.

Come ready to explore the sharp edge of sensation and learn how to harness the rush.

Date: March 3rd, 2026

Time: 6:45 to 9:30 PM
Location: The Usual Place

You must have taken the Getting Started Class to take this class.

Bring rope. Bring intention. Leave with an intense experience.

Limited spots available! Reserve your spot now and be prepared to turn intensity into something special. Book today!

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Rope is more than knots. It can be a caress, a tease, a breath held between you and your partner. In this beginner-friendly workshop, you’ll discover how to use rope as a tool for connection and intimacy rather than complexity.

Through guided exercises, you’ll learn:

How to use rope as an extension of your touch

One simple tie that becomes endlessly sensual

Techniques for teasing, timing, and building anticipation

How to create short, connected rope-structured partner exercises with your partner

This class is perfect for couples, partners, or individuals curious about bringing rope into their sensual play. No experience is required, just curiosity and an open mind.

Date: October 7th, 2025

Time: 6:45 to 9 PM
Location: The Usual Place

You must have taken the Getting Started Class to take this class.

Bring rope. Bring Mats, Bring Your Presense, Patience, and Playfulness.

Limited spots available! Reserve your spot now and be prepared to turn intensity into something special. Book today!

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Shibari Through a Lens: Capturing Emotion

Event Details:
Date: Tuesday, November 4th, 2025
Location: Given to Paid Attendees
Time: Doors open at 6:30 and close at 6:50; class ends at 9:00 p.m.

 
Why You Should Attend:

At All Tied Up San Diego, we believe that photography is a powerful form of art that captures the complexities of emotion and the beauty of the human experience. This event is tailored for students looking to use photography, moving beyond technical skills, to capture the essence of emotion in their bottoms. This workshop will elevate your skills, inspire creativity, and enhance your understanding of emotional storytelling through photography.

Do I Need A Camera?

Yes, Your phone has a camera, so that means you! This class is for all levels.

Workshop Highlights:

What You Will Learn:

Who Should Attend:

This workshop is ideal for students looking to improve their photographs, looking to explore the emotional dimensions of photographic storytelling. Whether you're a budding photographer or a newcomer to Shibari, "

Shibari Through a Lens" will provide the insights and skills needed to bring your photography to the next level.

How to Register:

Spaces are limited to ensure a personalized and impactful experience for all participants. Register now to secure your spot. For more information, visit our website at [www.alltiedupsandiego.com] or contact us at [alltiedupsandiego@gmail.com].

 
Don't miss this opportunity to transform your approach to photography and learn how to capture the emotions and stories that make each moment unique. Join us and start your journey towards becoming a master of emotional storytelling through photography. See you there!

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Hello Ropester!

In Rope Flow, we focus on what happens between the ties to connect and create. You'll learn how to transition with purpose, guide energy with intention, and create a seamless experience from start to finish.

What we’ll cover:

Sequencing simple ties into fluid, beautiful progressions

Reading your partner’s body and breath in real time

Crafting emotional tone through pacing and contact

Building structured partner exercises that feel organic, not scripted

This is where rope stops being technical and starts becoming personal.

Designed for beginners who want to grow, and intermediates who are ready to strip things down to what really matters.

Time: 6:45 to 9 PM

Location: Given to paid attendees

You must have taken the Getting Started Class to take this class.

Bring rope. Bring intention. Leave with a new way to tie.

Limited spots available! Reserve your spot now and be prepared to embark on a sensual adventure like no other. Don't miss out on this opportunity to elevate your intimacy to new heights. Book today!

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

So you're ready to learn how to be a Flier or a Tyier! Great!

Each class will be limited to nine (9) tying pairs.

Skills taught during the class will vary depending on the skill level of the students.

We will have experienced teaching assistants available to help you.

Each Top and bottom must have completed the prerequisite Online Course prior to attending the in-person class. (see details below)

When: 2nd Saturdays each month

Setup Time: 9:50 (be on-site before this time to setup)

Class Time: 10 AM to Noon

LAB Time: Noon to 2 PM is included in the cost of the class.

Cost: $80 per tying pair ($40 per person)

What Do You Need For Gear?

All of the needed gear will be explained in the prerequisite online course. You can purchase gear through our online store links or other retailers.

Here is a miminal listing:

- Floor mats

- Eight (8) thirty-foot (30') pieces of rope for body lines

- Two (2) shorter pieces for improve needes

- Two (2) thirty-foot (30') pieces of RATED rope for uplines

- A Metal Ring (min. 9" diameter recommended)

- Four Pear Shaped Carabiners

- A rated swivel

If you have questions please contact us directly.

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PREREQUISITE ONLINE COURSE

One of All Tied Up San Diego's core beliefs is "Education comes first - then the experience." Therefore, we require this course before participation in our in-person suspension school classes.

This course is designed to give you the education All Tied Up San Diego believes you need in order to begin to understand the risks of suspensions and to hopefully mitigate those risks through thoughtful consideration and communication.

Both Tops and bottoms must complete this course. Bottoms may be asking why they need this level of knowledge, and the simple answer is self-awareness. You need to know what you need to assess for yourself and about your Top when participating in suspensions.

Suspensions are a team activity, and both parties bear responsibility for participation in the suspension.

The course has questions with each training that must be answered successfully. 

In order to complete the course you must complete each step. 

The course will not be considered completed until all steps are finished. 

Course Contents:

- Nine modules of instruction with 25 individual trainings including:

- Things you need to know related to consent, negotiation, and communication

- Doing harm or being harmed in suspensions

- What you need to know related to the rope journey, ego, vetting, and what you don't know you don't know

- Physics, Suspension Math, and Suspension Gear 

- Hard, Soft and Pick Points - what is the difference and why it matters

- Hard point inspection

- Gear placement and rating

- Suspension uplines; what they are, what they must be, and how to tie them

- The Suspendable Arms Free Chest Harness Tie

- The "N" Hanger for connecting the harness to the hard point.

Once you complete this course you will have the basic knowledge All Tied Up San Diego feels you must have in order to attend Suspension School. It does not mean you are ready to suspend, it simply means you have a level of education that will help you to mitgate risk and start your suspension journey.

Cost: $99 per person

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Indulge in a playful fusion of seasonal spirit and Shibari artistry at our exclusive gathering. Whether you're an enthusiast or just getting started, immerse yourself in an evening of delightful ties with a merry twist! No partner required—all are welcome who've experienced our Getting Started Class.

Discover the artistry behind crafting a skillfully wrapped present and adorning your partner as a dazzling Christmas tree. Get hands-on guidance and learn fun, decorative ties infused with holiday charm.

Highlights:

• Transform Your Partner into a Living Lighted Tree
• Wrap Your Partner like the Present They Are
• This is a fun and entertaining class designed to bring the joy of the holidays!

Join us for a merry soirée and celebrate the season in a uniquely creative way. Plus, revel in our special holiday pricing at just $15!

Date: December 2nd, 2025
Time: 6:45 PM to 9 PM
Location: The usual place.

Secure your spot for a night of joyful bonding and whimsical ties—reserve now and unwrap the magic of Holiday Ties with All Tied Up San Diego!"

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Why Choose the Shibari 101 Course?

Are you ready to turn fantasies into reality, to communicate through rope, and to foster deep connections? With the Shibari 101 Course, you'll not only learn the fundamentals of Shibari but also gain profound insights that will empower you to create lasting, intimate experiences.

What Makes This Course Unique?

This isn't just any course; it's an immersive, intensive experience that guides you through every step of your journey:

In-Person Learning: In-person group sessions with SirKnottyDan & Renee, where you'll discuss crucial course modules and engage in hands-on learning.

Online Support: Access a robust online platform featuring pre-recorded videos of hard-skills and tie applications, enabling you to take what you learn and keep practicing at your own pace.

Key Highlights of the Shibari 101 Course:

Negotiation & Vetting: Engage in actual negotiations and simulated vetting processes to enhance your understanding of consent and boundaries.

Diverse Tie Applications: From single column ties to chest harnesses and double column ties, explore versatile applications that empower your creativity.

Connection & Intimacy: Learn to cultivate deep connections and enhance intimacy with your partner through Shibari.

Frictions, Hitches, & More: Master the art of frictions and hitches to control your rope with precision and intention.

Putting It All Together: Develop the skills to craft advanced ties by combining fundamental elements.

Access to Exclusive Content: Enjoy additional hours of video instruction that continue to enrich your journey even after the course concludes.

TWO CLASSES OVER TWO MONTH SCHEDULE:

Four (4) Three-Hour Classes are Scheduled:

Class Dates:

Class #1: Thursday, Nov 6th

Class #2: Thursday, Nov 20th

Class #3: Thursday, Dec 4th

Class #4: Thursday, Dec 18th

Time: 6:45 to 10 PM

Note: Doors open approximately 6:30. Class starts promptly at 7:00, and doors lock at 6:50. If you arrive after this time, you will not be allowed into the space.

One-time Payment: $499 (per couple)


Meet Your Instructors: SirKnottyDan & Renee

With a legacy of teaching Shibari since 2015, Dan and Renee have guided over 5,000 students to embrace their rope confidence. Their passion for sharing knowledge and fostering a supportive community is the driving force behind the Shibari 101 Course.

Your Journey Awaits - Claim Your Mastery

If you're ready to unravel the secrets of Shibari, to forge unbreakable bonds, and to become a "Bedroom Bondage Boss," the Shibari 101 Course is your gateway to transformation. Start your journey and immerse yourself in an experience that goes beyond rope; it's about connection, intimacy, and empowerment.

Elevate your rope journey with the Shibari 101 Course, where education meets experience, and where you're guided by true experts in the art of Shibari. Unveil the possibilities of a world connected by ropes and embrace the skills that will stay with you forever. Enroll now and embark on your path to becoming a true Shibari connoisseur!

This course is designed for those who have completed the 101 course and are ready to challenge themselves further, turning intricate designs and emotional narratives into breathtaking reality.

The Shibari 201 Course, an incredible opportunity to delve into the captivating art of rope with masterful instructors, SirKnottyDan & Renee.

What Will You Learn?

The Shibari 201 Course will introduce you to advanced techniques and concepts, including:

• Multi-Directional Single Column Ties: Learn the versatility of single column ties that move in multiple directions, adding complexity and beauty to your rope work.
• In-Line Column-to-Column Ties: Master the skill of connecting multiple points with precision, enhancing the aesthetic and functionality of your ties.
• Hojo Cuffs: Dive into the traditional aspect of Shibari with Hojo cuffs, bringing an element of historical significance and restraint elegance.
• In-Line Frictions: Understand the intricacies of creating secure, dynamic frictions that allow for movement while maintaining control.
• Multi-Directional Frictions: Expand your friction repertoire to include multi-directional options for more creative and adaptable ties.
• Emotional Intention: Elevate your rope scenes by learning to infuse your ties with emotional intention, creating a more profound connection and experience.
• Scene Creation: Gain the ability to design and execute complete Shibari scenes, from conceptualization to execution, ensuring a memorable and impactful experience.

 
Why Choose the Shibari 201 Course?

• Deepen Your Shibari Practice: Build on the foundations with advanced techniques that challenge and inspire.
• Enhance Connection and Communication: Learn to express complex emotions and narratives through rope, deepening your connection with your partner.
• Exclusive Access to Expertise: Benefit from the vast experience of SirKnottyDan & Renee, who have been at the forefront of teaching Shibari since 2015.
• Comprehensive Learning Experience: Enjoy a blend of in-person and online learning that accommodates your pace and enhances your skills.
• Community and Support: Join a community of like-minded individuals passionate about Shibari, offering support, inspiration, and camaraderie.

 
Course Schedule

Two Intensive Six-Hour Days:

Saturday, 9 AM to 1 PM / 2 PM to 5 PM
Sunday, 9:30 AM to 1 PM / 2 PM to 5:30 PM

 
A one-hour lunch break is provided each day to relax and connect with fellow students.

Investment: $599 (per couple) 

Your Instructors: SirKnottyDan & Renee

Continue your journey with the guidance of Dan and Renee, who have empowered over 4,000 students with confidence and mastery in Shibari. Their dedication to sharing knowledge and fostering a nurturing environment is unparalleled, making the Shibari 201 Course not just a class, but a transformative experience.

Ready to Unleash Your Potential?

Elevate your Shibari skills beyond the basics and explore the intricate beauty of advanced rope bondage. The Shibari 201 Course is more than just learning ties; it's about creating art, expressing emotion, and building unforgettable experiences. Secure your spot now and take your Shibari journey to new heights!

Enroll Today and Transform Your Shibari Practice

Join us for the Shibari 201 Course and embrace the next level of your rope journey. Spaces are limited to ensure personalized attention and an intimate learning environment. Don't miss this opportunity to enhance your skills, deepen your connections, and become a master of Shibari artistry.

Ready for Next Steps?

You have completed Getting Started with Rope.
You understand the basics.
Now you want consistency, structure, and real progression.

Shibari 101 is a four-class, weeknight course designed for tying pairs who want to build solid rope skills, deepen connection, and learn within a tested system rather than piecing things together from miscellaneous classes or videos.

This is not a drop-in workshop.
It is a guided learning path.

By the end of this course, you will have a shared rope language, a repeatable approach to scenes, and the confidence to build ties intentionally rather than guessing your way forward.

What This Course Delivers 

Shibari 101 gives you something most rope classes do not.

Continuity.

Each class builds directly on the last. Concepts, techniques, and communication skills are introduced, practiced, refined, and integrated across four sessions. You are not starting over each week. You are progressing.

You will leave this course knowing not just how to tie, but how to think in rope.

Course Structure

This course consists of four three-hour classes, totaling 12 hours of instruction.

Class 1: Tying Essentials
Foundations of rope, connection, and consistent handling

Class 2: Building Trust
Scenes, negotiation, and structured communication

Class 3: The Body Canvas
Where rope meets emotion, placement, and intention

Class 4: Rope Creation
Integration, expression, and building complete ties

This structure allows skills to settle, questions to surface, and confidence to develop naturally.

Who This Course Is For

This course is designed for tying pairs who have completed Getting Started with Rope and are ready for their next step.

It is ideal for people who:
• Want consistent instruction rather than one-off classes
• Learn best with structure and repetition
• Value safety, communication, and intentional practice
• Want materials to support learning between sessions

This course assumes basic familiarity with rope safety and consent. Completion of the Getting Started class gives you what you need.

What Makes Shibari 101 Different

This course is built on a standardized, tested curriculum that has been refined over years of teaching.

Your enrollment includes:
• A printed course binder to support note-taking and retention
• Access to online instructional videos for review and practice
• In-person instruction with consistent pacing and expectations
• A shared framework used across all four classes

This combination ensures you are supported during the course and after it ends, not left on your own wondering what to practice next.

What You Will Learn

Throughout the course, you will develop skills in:

• Clear negotiation and boundary setting
• Scene structure and intentional flow
• Rope handling, frictions, and hitches
• Single and double column applications
• Chest harnesses and foundational body ties
• Combining elements into complete, functional ties

Each skill is taught in context, with an emphasis on why it matters and how it supports safety, connection, and creativity.

Online Course Access Included

Your registration includes access to exclusive online content covering hard skills and rope applications.

These materials allow you to:
• Review techniques between classes
• Practice at your own pace
• Reinforce learning after the course ends

This support is part of what allows students to retain and build on what they learn here.

Schedule

Four three-hour classes held on weeknights.

Classes are held on the 2nd and 4th Wednesdays, bi-monthly, and must be taken in sequential order.

Class 1:  Feb. 11th

Class 2: Feb. 25th

Class 3: March 11th 

Class 4: March 25th

Time

6:45 PM to 10:00 PM

Doors open at 6:30 PM
Doors lock at 6:50 PM
Class begins promptly at 7:00 PM

Consistent attendance matters. Each class builds on the previous one.

Investment and Payment Options

Option #1: 

One-time enrollment, includes all four classes, plus binder and online course access.

$499* dollars per tying pair

Option #2:  Two payments over two months. 

1st Payment $299* dollars per tying pair, includes class 1, course binder, and online course access

Second payment
$200 dollars* 

A processing fee will be added to each payment.

Meet Your Instructors

Shibari 101 is taught by Dan and Renee, founders of All Tied Up San Diego and rope educators since 2015.

They have guided more than 5,000 students through structured rope education and are known for their clear instruction, consistent curriculum, and supportive teaching style.

This course reflects years of refinement and real-world teaching experience.

What Comes Next

Completing Shibari 101 prepares you for more advanced rope classes, intensives, and play spaces within the All Tied Up San Diego community.

You will share a common language and foundation with others who have completed the course, allowing you to step into those spaces with confidence rather than uncertainty.

Ready to Continue Your Rope Journey

If you are ready to move beyond basics and into intentional rope practice, Shibari 101 is your next step.

Register now and commit to learning rope in a way that is structured, supported, and built to last.

Your rope journey deserves more than guesswork.

Ready for Next Steps?

You have completed the 101 Series (or a similar course)
You understand more than the basics, but want to take your rope to a more connected experience.
Now you want consistency, structure, and real progression.

Shibari 201 is a four-class, weeknight course designed for tying pairs who want to build solid rope skills, deepen connection, and learn within a tested system rather than piecing things together from miscellaneous classes or videos.

This is not a drop-in workshop.
It is a guided learning path.

By the end of this course, you will have a shared rope language, a repeatable approach to scenes, and the confidence to build ties with intention and deliver an environment that is sure to deliver, rather than guessing your way forward.

What This Course Delivers 

Shibari 201 gives you something most rope classes do not.

Continuity.

Each class builds directly on the last. Concepts, techniques, and communication skills are introduced, practiced, refined, and integrated across four sessions. You are not starting over each week. You are progressing.

You will leave this course knowing not just how to tie, but how to think in rope.

Course Structure

This course consists of four three-hour classes, totaling 12 hours of instruction.

Class 1: Focus on Intention 1
Control rope direction and purpose, recognize key aspects of advanced rope

Class 2: Focus on Intention 2
Delivering emotions, creating tension, and climactic experiences

Class 3: Environment 1
Deeper understanding of directionality and intention with rope

Class 4: Environment 2
Integration, Arms-in, Controlling the Environment

This structure allows skills to settle, questions to surface, and confidence to develop naturally.

Who This Course Is For

This course is designed for tying pairs who have completed the 101 Series Course (or similar*) and are ready for their next step.

It is ideal for people who:
• Want consistent instruction rather than one-off classes
• Learn best with structure and repetition
• Value safety, communication, and intentional practice
• Want materials to support learning between sessions

This course assumes strong familiarity with rope basics, safety, and consent. Completion of the Getting Started class and 101 Series Course gives you what you need.

What Makes Shibari 201 Different

This course is built on a standardized, tested curriculum that has been refined over years of teaching.

Your enrollment includes:
• A printed course binder to support note-taking and retention
• Access to online instructional videos for review and practice
• In-person instruction with consistent pacing and expectations
• A shared framework used across all four classes

This combination ensures you are supported during the course and after it ends, not left on your own, wondering what to practice next.

What You Will Learn

Throughout the course, you will develop skills in:

• Clear negotiation and boundary setting at a 201 level
• Scene structure and intentional flow to set the environment
• Directional rope handling, frictions, and hitches
• Multiple applications of directional rope
• Takate-Kote Chest harnesses and structural body ties
• Combining elements of intention and environment into complete, functional ties

Each skill is taught in context, with an emphasis on why it matters and how it supports safety, connection, and creativity.

Online Course Access Included

Your registration includes access to exclusive online content covering hard skills and rope applications.

These materials allow you to:
• Review techniques between classes
• Practice at your own pace
• Reinforce learning after the course ends

This support is part of what allows students to retain and build on what they learn here.

Schedule

Four three-hour classes held on weeknights.

Classes are held on the 2nd and 4th Wednesdays, bi-monthly, and must be taken in sequential order.

Class 1:  April 8th

Class 2: April 22nd

Class 3: May 13th

Class 4: May 27th

Time

6:45 PM to 10:30 PM

Doors open at 6:30 PM
Doors lock at 6:50 PM
Class begins promptly at 7:00 PM

Consistent attendance matters. Each class builds on the previous one.

Investment and Payment Options

Option #1: 

One-time enrollment, includes all four classes, plus binder and online course access.

$599* dollars per tying pair

Option #2:  Two payments over two months. 

1st Payment $350* dollars per tying pair, includes class 1, course binder, and online course access

Second payment
$249 dollars* 

A processing fee will be added to each payment.

Meet Your Instructors

Shibari 201 is taught by Dan and Renee, founders of All Tied Up San Diego and rope educators since 2015.

They have guided more than 5,000 students through structured rope education and are known for their clear instruction, consistent curriculum, and supportive teaching style.

This course reflects years of refinement and real-world teaching experience.

What Comes Next

Completing Shibari 201 prepares you for more advanced rope classes, intensives, and play spaces within the All Tied Up San Diego community.

You will share a common language and foundation with others who have completed the course, allowing you to step into those spaces with confidence rather than uncertainty.

Ready to Continue Your Rope Journey

If you are ready to create emotion and bring intention to your rope, Shibari 201 is your next step.

Register now and commit to learning rope in a way that is structured, supported, and built to last.

Your rope journey deserves more than guesswork.

*Prerequisite: Must have taken the Getting Started Class

This is an event many of you have been asking for!

Have you ever watched a movie where the hero is tied up and thought, I could get out of that!

Escape Rope is a Western Bondage style of rope that is designed to create a specific emotional response, helplessness!

Or not . . .

This event is designed to look at ways to bring Escape Rope into your rope play in a fun and exciting way.

We will discuss the challenges of tying someone into an escape-proof tie, plus the safety concerns that are very important to consider when trying to escape.

You must have a partner to participate in this event.

You will need rope, floor mats, and safety cutters.

*NOTE: The activity of escape rope is a higher-risk activity and should be considered edge-play for the purposes of trying to escape from a rope tie. Those that are being tied should clearly understand their own body and how to communicate their needs clearly.

Note: Doors Close @ 6:50 PM. If you are late, we will not be able to come to the front and open the doors. There will be no refunds or extensions if you miss the door.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Hello there!

Are you new to the captivating world of shibari rope artistry, seeking to explore your passion and meet like-minded individuals? Look no further because we've crafted a unique and thrilling event just for you!

The Rope Merry-Go-Round

Join us for an unforgettable evening of connection, creativity, and camaraderie! This event has been expertly designed to provide both Rope Tops and Rope Bottoms with a safe and structured environment to explore their shared interests and, who knows, maybe even find that perfect partner for your shibari journey.

What is the Rope Merry-Go-Round?

Picture a merry-go-round, but instead of horses, we have talented Rope Tops ready to connect with you using their ties and techniques. Here's how it works:

Rotation of the Ropes: Rope bottoms will gracefully rotate from one Rope Top to another, each time crafting a short, arms free chest harness tie. During which both Tops and bottoms will gain experience communicating and working with different partners in a structured and supportive environment. 

New Connections: This event is all about forging connections. You'll have the chance to meet and tie with a variety of Rope Tops, expanding your horizons and building new friendships within the Shibari community.

Finding Your Perfect Partner: The Rope Merry-Go-Round is the ideal place to discover that special connection that makes your Shibari experiences truly magical. Whether you're looking for a long-term partner or simply a new friend to tie with, this event is where connections are made.

Safety First: We take your safety seriously. Our team of experienced organizers will ensure a secure and respectful environment for all participants, so you can relax and focus on your shared passion.

A Night to Remember: Expect a night filled with laughter, learning, and, of course, a touch of sensuality. Don't worry if you're new to Shibari; this event is open to enthusiasts of all skill levels.

What if I'm NEW?: If you are a Top, we want you to come to this event!  

We usually have more bottoms than Tops so this is a great opportunity to meet potential rope partners and improve your skills. The only tie you need to know is the Arms-Free Chest Harness from the Getting Started Class. You will also need mats, rope, and safety cutters. If you need help, message Dan on Slack.

Why Attend?

• Meet Rope Tops who what to share their techniques.
• Connect with Rope Bottoms who share your passion.
• Explore the possibility of finding a Shibari partner.
• Enjoy a night of art, connection, and sensuality in a secure environment.

 
Secure Your Spot:

Spaces are limited, so register now to let us know you want to participate. Read through the registration form to understand the available options and how this process works.

Discover new connections and weave unforgettable memories at the Rope Merry-Go-Round. It's time to step into a world of beauty, passion, and shared interests. See you there!

NOTE: You must arrive at the facility by 6:50 or the doors will be closed, no refund will be given for missing the door.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Join us at All Tied Up San Diego for an exclusive rope class that delves into the technical and scientific aspects of doing rope suspensions. 

Time: 6:45 to 9:00 p.m. (doors open at 6:30 and close at 6:50)

Cost: $50 per person / $100 per couple

This is for a single class in the suspension series of classes, which occur on 1st Tuesday each month. 

You must have a partner.

You must be approved to attend this class.

Don't miss this opportunity to refine your technique, engage in profound partnership dynamics, and unlock a new level of expressiveness in your rope play. 

Space is limited—secure your spot and learn about the finer points of rope suspension.

Doors open at 6:30 and close at 6:50; class will start at 7 PM sharp. You will not be allowed into the class if you arrive after 6:50.

You will need the following items for the class:

At least eight 30' strands of jute, posh or hemp rope. 

You will need at least two 30' lengths of posh rope for body uplines (or nylon rate line).

Safety Cutters

Floor mats to cover an area no larger than 4'x6'.

You will need suspension gear. If you need some, click here. 

Note: Doors Close @ 6:50 PM. If you are late, we will not be able to come to the front and open the doors. There will be no refunds or extensions if you miss the door.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

This session is a supervised practice environment for participants who have completed the required introductory training.

Participants use this time to apply previously learned skills, refine techniques, and build confidence in a structured setting. Instructors are present throughout the event to monitor safety, provide guidance, and support skill development.

This is not an open or unstructured environment. All activity is expected to follow established safety protocols and community standards.
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Dive into the heart of Shibari rope bondage as we invite you to the Open Practice Event, an evening of camaraderie, growth, and shared passion. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or taking your first steps into the world of rope, this event is your haven for exploration and community.

Event Time and Atmosphere:

Location: Given to paid attendees
Cost: $15 per person (2 hours) and $20 per person (3 hours)
Prerequisite: You must have already attended the Getting Started Class
Partner: Individuals or couples are welcome

 
Creating a Safe(r) Space:

Step into an environment meticulously designed with your comfort and safety in mind. Our Open Practice Event is anchored in the principles of inclusivity, respect, and consent. Designated practice area Monitors are present to provide oversight, guidance, and ensure that everyone's experience is enjoyable.

The Power of Community:

Unite with fellow rope enthusiasts for an evening of shared discovery. Whether you're seeking to work on your ties, refine your techniques, or revel in the energy of a supportive community, the Open Practice Event is your canvas for growth.

Practice, Not Play:

Embrace the spirit of exploration as we come together for rope practice and connection. This event is dedicated solely to the practice of the art of Shibari rope bondage – an opportunity to refine your craft, engage with others, and elevate your understanding of the art form.

Your Hands-On Journey Towards Mastering Your Skills

Whether you're just starting out or a seasoned practitioner, this is your golden opportunity to receive hands-on guidance from seasoned instructors, refine your techniques, and experience the art of Shibari in a whole new light. 

A Space for Expression:

Feel free to express yourself in a way that aligns with your comfort level.  Clothing choices are participant-directed. The environment remains non-sexual and focused on structured training and safe skill application. It's a space to focus on your rope journey and building connections.

Event Highlights:

Designated practice area Monitors (DMs): Our dedicated monitors are present to ensure a secure and respectful environment for all attendees.

Supportive Atmosphere: Engage with fellow participants, share insights, and receive or offer guidance as you navigate your practice.

Skill Building: Make use of the time to refine your techniques, experiment, and engage in productive discussions with like-minded individuals.

Join Us in Celebration:

The Open Practice Event is your invitation to experience Shibari rope bondage in its social format. Connect with your community, enhance your skills, and revel in an evening of exploration and camaraderie.

We welcome you to an event that cherishes your growth, fosters connections, and embodies the essence of the Shibari community. Secure your spot and celebrate the beauty of rope at the Open Practice Event – a place where bonds are formed, knowledge is shared, and unforgettable memories are created.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

If you love being tied, this monthly gathering is a chance to connect with others who share that experience. It’s a discussion group for rope bottoms and switches attending in their bottom role.

Event Host: Sunshinne33

Bio: Sunshine (she/her) is a lifelong lover of rope, yoga teacher, and bottom leaning switch who joined the scene in September 2024, where she began to be tied by those who shared her love of shibari.
Like a lot of new rope bottoms learning on their own, there was a period of painful trial and error, until finding reputable sources for bottoming education. She quickly became passionate about finding more and since then has taken upwards of 30 hours of bottoming education courses, online and in person including somatics, injuries in rope, intro to suspension for bottoms and an 8 hour online “Essentials for Bottoms” intensive with Rion Riot and Natalie Rose. She is passionate about sharing her experiences and learnings to support other bottoms, both new and experienced.

Event Time and Atmosphere:

Location: The usual place
Cost: Donation-based - Pay what you can.
Prerequisite: None, Open to all rope bottoms
Role:  Bottoms and bottom-minded switches

NOTE: While we appreciate the support of Tops in our community, we kindly ask that they sit this one out.  

Creating a Safe(r) Space:

The conversation centers on the bottom perspective. We share knowledge, compare notes about time under rope, and talk through questions that don’t always get much space in typical rope discussions. Sometimes the focus is practical; other times it’s simply about being in a room where the bottom experience is understood.

Whether you’re newer to rope or have years of experience being tied, this is a place to talk openly, listen, and continue growing in your rope journey.

To help keep the space comfortable and candid, the group is limited to bottoms and switches wearing their bottom hat. 

Come share, listen, and connect with others who love rope from the bottom side.

Supportive Atmosphere: Engage with fellow participants, share insights, and receive or offer guidance as you navigate your practice.

Skill Building: Make use of the time to refine your techniques and engage in productive discussions with like-minded individuals.

Join Us: We welcome you to an event that cherishes your growth, fosters connections, and embodies the essence of the Shibari community. 

This is solely a discussion group; no rope activities will occur during this event.

Note: This is a non-rope event. Participation in this event is open and does not require the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted. All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment.

Note: This session is a supervised practice environment for participants who have completed the required introductory training.
Participants use this time to apply previously learned skills, refine techniques, and build confidence in a structured setting. Instructors are present throughout the event to monitor safety, provide guidance, and support skill development.
This is not an open or unstructured environment. All activity is expected to follow established safety protocols and community standards.
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Rainbow Rope

Rainbow Rope is a queer-centered structured rope gathering designed to hold space for connection, creativity, and community.

This is not a general rope event. It is a space built around queer connection, comfort, and community.
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What does the night look like?
Rainbow Rope is intentionally structured to support both rope practice and social connection, with two distinct but connected spaces available throughout the evening.

Rope Jam Space
The rope area will be open for tying, being tied, or observing throughout the night.
This is a jam-style space where you can drop in, explore, and engage with rope at your own pace.

Social Space + Optional Circle

A designated social space is available to support connection and communication between participants outside of active training areas.
About 20–30 minutes into the event, we will open an optional social circle for those who would like to participate. This allows time for people to arrive, settle in, and get comfortable before joining.
The circle is a chance to introduce yourself, share interests, and get a sense of who’s in the room.

After the circle, the social space will remain open with:
• Light, low-pressure games
• Conversation prompts
• Space to meet and connect with others

You’re welcome to arrive at any time—there’s no pressure to be on time for the circle.
You are always welcome to move between spaces, participate as much or as little as you’d like, or simply observe.
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Who is this event for?
Rainbow Rope is a queer-centered space. It is designed first and foremost for LGBTQIA+ people to gather, connect, create, and be in a structured, supportive community

We are not interested in gatekeeping identity or deciding who is “queer enough” to belong here. We trust people to make that decision for themselves with honesty and care.
If you are queer, questioning, exploring, or feel that this space is genuinely for you, you are welcome.

If you are not queer but are closely connected to queer community, you are welcome only if you can participate in a way that keeps queer people and queer experience centered.
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What does it mean to keep the space queer-centered?

It means showing up with care, respecting names and pronouns, not making assumptions about identity or relationships, and being mindful not to dominate the room or shift focus away from the people this space was created for.

Note: All rope events are conducted in a structured, instructor-monitored environment. Participation is limited to individuals who have completed the prerequisite training. This is a sober environment. Alcohol and drugs are not permitted.

Step into a realm of camaraderie and connection as the enchanting world of Shibari unfolds before you at the Munch – an evening dedicated to socializing, forming new bonds, and embracing the vibrant spirit of the community.

Event Details and Atmosphere:

Date: Every Month
Time: 6:30 to 9:00 PM
Location: Tony Pepperoni Restaurant, 12165 Alta Carmel Ct, San Diego, CA, 92128

Cost: Please purchase food/drink from the establishment, and tip the staff.

A Setting for Connection:

Discover the joy of meaningful interactions and shared experiences as we come together at the Munch. This isn't just an event; it's an opportunity to meet fellow community members, engage in vibrant discussions, and forge new friendships that resonate with your passions.

Raise Your Glass and Savor the Moment:

As the name suggests, we encourage you to bring your favorite brew or indulge in delectable munchies while we soak in the atmosphere of camaraderie. No rope tying or play, just pure enjoyment as we indulge in food, drinks, and delightful conversations.

Unlocking Etiquette: Navigating the Munch Realm

Engaging in a munch comes with a unique set of unspoken guidelines that foster respect, inclusivity, and open communication. Here are a few pointers to make your experience at the Munch exceptional:

Be Respectful: Approach conversations with an open mind, respecting others' boundaries and preferences.

Privacy Matters: What's shared at the munch stays at the munch. Respect the confidentiality and discretion of fellow attendees.

Dress Comfortably: The dress code is relaxed and casual, allowing you to express yourself comfortably.

Consent and Boundaries: Always ask for permission before initiating conversations of a personal nature. Consent matters at all times.

Engage and Enjoy: Feel free to join ongoing conversations, share experiences, and explore different viewpoints. This is your space to connect.

Leave a Tip: Just as we respect the restaurant, we want the staff to want us back. Respect the venue, fellow attendees, and especially those who are serving us.

Embrace the Spirit of the Munch:

The Munch is your invitation to step out of your everyday routine and immerse yourself in a supportive and engaging environment. Forge connections that can potentially lead to lifelong friendships and collaborations within the community.

Event Details and Beyond:

Venture into a world of connection, laughter, and shared passions. Join us at the Munch and elevate your journey within the community.

We can't wait to share this extraordinary evening with you, where we brew connections, share experiences, and celebrate the essence of our vibrant community. Join us, and let's raise our glasses to new beginnings and lasting friendships at the Munch!

Note:  It is open to the public. This event takes place at a public restaurant and is not a structured instructional session. No rope activities occur. All participants are expected to behave responsibly and in accordance with the venue’s policies.