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San Diego's Premier Shibari Rope Bondage Instructional Group

What's the First Step? 

Attend the All Tied Up San Diego
"Getting Started" Shibari Class

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Step One: Getting Started Class

Getting Started Class: This class serves as a prerequisite for newcomers to the All Tied Up San Diego community. It focuses on essential knowledge about rope, safety, anatomy, and the basics of tying and being tied. The Getting Started Class provides a solid foundation for further exploration of Shibari.

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Step Two: See Renee's Handy-Dandy Flowchart

Wondering where to go next?

Renee's Flowchart will help you to see your options for next steps, and get a better understanding of just who Dan picked as a partner! 

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List of possible next steps for you:

Try One On - Come feel what it is like to be tied by an experienced Top.

Kink NavigationAre you ready to step into the captivating world of Kink and BDSM? Unlock the Secrets to Navigating the Kinkdom with Confidence.

BREW/MunchStep into a realm of camaraderie and connection as the enchanting world of Shibari unfolds before you at the BREW/Munch – an evening dedicated to socializing, forming new bonds, and embracing the vibrant spirit of the BDSM and Kink community.

Shibari Rope LABA LAB Event is a dynamic environment where participants come together to practice ties, skills, and objectives, all aimed at propelling your rope expertise forward.

Open Rope PracticeUnite with fellow rope enthusiasts for an evening of shared discovery. Whether you're seeking to work on your ties, refine your techniques, or revel in the energy of a supportive community, the Open Practice Event is your arena for growth.

Ropetastic ROMPthis your invitation to immerse yourself in your very own rope adventure. We've reserved the entire facility for you to unleash your imagination, explore your desires, and experience the thrill of rope in a way like never before.

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Ready to Dive Deeper: 101 Course

Shibari 101 Course: This comprehensive 12-hour course is designed to transform participants into skilled practitioners of Shibari rope bondage. It offers both online and in-person instruction, covering a wide range of topics, including foundational techniques, safety, consent, and advanced ties. The course is structured to take bondage beginners and transform them into Bedroom Bondage Bosses!

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When you learn with us 
Safety is Paramount.

Welcome to a safe(r) place to explore something deeply and irrevocably personal 

Are you like others who have fantasized and been fascinated by the enchanting world of Shibari rope bondage yet struggling to find the right path to explore this art form safely and responsibly?

You're not alone.

Many individuals share your passion for the beauty and intimacy that Shibari offers but find themselves frustrated . . . 

  • by the lack of reliable resources and qualified instructors,
  • from online videos and articles that leave you feeling confused about techniques and safety precautions,
  • or attending events where the person hosting is tying newcomers in complex ties, even suspensions, with no education, communication or even consent, 

The fear of potential risks looms large. This is not an art without risks.

It is important to understand that you don't know what your don't know. 

That's where we come in.

Here to be your guide

At All Tied Up San Diego, we understand your desires and concerns. Whether you're a Top or bottom, we're here to be your ultimate guide on this transformative journey.

Our experienced instructors are not only experts in the art of Shibari but also passionate about emphasizing the importance of consent and safety. We offer structured classes, courses, and workshops designed for everyone, from beginners to experienced practitioners, providing clear, step-by-step guidance.

Join us, like thousands before you, and let us help you transform into a confident and skilled Shibari practitioner, creating beautiful and meaningful connections while ensuring your exploration is enjoyable and secure.

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Rated 5.0 out of 5
February 11, 2024

Been going to different classes for refreshing my skills. This was by far the best presentation. Similar materials just better. Thank you.

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Dan and Renee are the lead instructors at All Tied Up San Diego. They have an incredible relationship that all started years ago (before All Tied Up San Diego) and has blossomed in so many ways. Click the link and listen to the first episode where they share about Renee's first kinky event.

This is a great way to get to know us!

What Our Students Are Saying

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Rated 5.0 out of 5
November 10, 2023

Even as a beginner, every all tied up event I’ve gone to has been very welcoming and comfortable 🙂 The rope merry go round hosted this month was especially fun and I felt 10× more confident in myself by the end of the night 😋 thank you for creating this safe space to experiment

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Eve

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Eve,

Watching your confidence grow was fun to observe. You definitely were engaging effectively by the end of the night. Thank you for allowing is to be part of your journey!

Great for starters in rope

Rated 5.0 out of 5
September 10, 2023

Renee and Dan are very knowledgeable and inviting. They make you feel comfortable and all the teaching assistants are patient and thorough in walking you through the correct way to do rope. The intro to rope class is definitely the best way to start I am glad I did it and would recommend it to anyone getting interested in rope

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Ken

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Ken,

It was great to have you at our event today. We are glad you did it too!

The BEST starter experience

Rated 5.0 out of 5
August 23, 2023

I’ve been interested in entering the “kinkdom” for years, but it always seemed scary and overwhelming. I found this beginner class through a friend’s advice, and was so excited to participate! Renee and Dan were amazing hosts– I learned so much about autonomy and consent, the scene itself, and got a tiny peek into a big, beautiful, and complex world. Everything was professional and thoughtfully done, and I felt comfortable the entire time, even with my ZERO experience. I’m so excited to attend future events with All Tied Up, and I sincerely recommend that anyone interested in kink, and shibari in particular, take courses with this group. The dedication and passion that Dan, Renee, and their team have for this is AMAZING.

Thank you so much, All Tied Up <3 can't wait to see you all again!!

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Thank you Crow for your energy and enthusiasm. We are glad to help guide you and help you find success in this fantastic community! Looking forward to seeing how you progress on this journey!

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Since 2015

We started All Tied Up San Diego to provide opportunities for the rope community of San Diego to come together, practice, and share their love of rope. 

Since then we have hosted more than 700 events and more than 4,000 individuals have participated in our in-person and online classes, learning how to create amazing experiences using rope.

We also support the San Diego Leather Realm at the San Diego Pride Festival as a sponsor to help bring an educational experience to those interested in learning more.

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Experience

We bring years of experience, not just as shibari rope bondage instructors, as a teacher-of-teachers (Dan) and (Renee) as a psychotherapist, to each interaction.

Therefore, you will be taught hard skills and soft skills to improve your communication and interpersonal relationship skills.

Skills that will not only benefit you doing shibari, but that can transfer into any environment. Easily and quickly.

Your Safety Matters

As it is being taught in many cases, we also believe that shibari rope bondage is dangerous and puts both partners at risk of physical, emotional, and mental harm. Consequently, harm can last a lifetime.

Therefore, we spend time focusing on safety and risk mitigation. You get to learn from our mistakes and gain valuable knowledge on how to mitigate the risk.

You will learn to develop self-awareness and a better understanding of human behavior to identify issues better. 

Learn observational skills that help you to assess a situation quickly.

These skills will help you learn how to communicate better, gain confidence, improve connection, and deepen intimacy. 

Gain profound knowledge about yourself and your partner. 

Grow Community

Our goal has always been to help increase the shibari rope community and provide opportunities for people, like you - single or with a partner - to begin learning about shibari rope bondage. 

We offer a series of experience courses designed to help you gain confidence, increase communication, deepen intimacy, ensure consent and mitigate risks.

In the end, you will have the skills and confidence to go to any shibari rope event, anywhere, and have the understanding of how to engage other lovers of rope bondage so that you can have the experience you desire.

If you have any questions or concerns, please contact us!

Sincerely,

SirKnottyDan & ReneeHayBailey
Owners & Lead Instructors

Friendly, welcoming, and far less intimidating than you probably imagine!

Rated 5.0 out of 5
November 21, 2019

Let me start by saying that I’ve been in the lifestyle for 20+ years. I’ve seen a lot of intense and intimidating classes, and some very mediocre gatherings trying to pass themselves off as classes. Happily, this was neither! When my wife suggested that we take a shibari/rope class, I honestly wasn’t sure who or what to expect. I had the mental image of some ancient sensei cracking a bamboo crop, or the leather guy from The Village People. And I was positive we were going to be the only couple our age, let alone so vanilla in appearance.

What we found upon arriving is an amazing group of people who openly talk about an artistic subject that has so many facets. The owners are fantastically informative, creative, humorous, and knowledgeable. Every step of the class, we were nodding along or grinning from ear to ear. The other beginners and staff were everyday people who all share a passion for rope. Couples and singles alike; absolute newbies (we’re talking just discovered rope and the community within recent weeks) to those that have been doing this and have been a part of the kink community for years; all gathered and sharing a great learning experience. I honestly felt more at ease and safer in this class than I have in many other social occasions. We had so much fun with the Safety&Intro Class that we’ve already signed up for the 101 classes!

So much respect to Dan & Renee for developing this open and enjoyable way to get into shibari in a safe and inviting setting! I honestly cannot say enough how great this experience has been so far! I am looking forward to where this all leads!

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What Is An Event Like?

Something truly special.
A place where regular people come together to share a common joy.

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 Experience

Experience the thrill of tying or being tied. 

In-person or online, with a live instructor showing you the keys to making it amazing.

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Find New Friends

Find like minded individuals who share your desire for something different.

Take a step forward towards relationships.

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Safety

Your safety is our priority. 

Come to our safer, consent-driven environment.

Stop wondering - start doing.

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 Come Together

Many people come as a couple to find ways to add something new to their relationship. 

Share a new experience together.

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Or Alone

Singles are welcome and there are many individuals looking for others who want to tie or be tied.

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Inclusive

We welcome everyone. 

We are an inclusive community. 

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Who We Are

All Tied Up San Diego is a group for rope bondage enthusiasts of all kinds. We are committed to safety, education, and growth of the rope community in the San Diego region. 

This is an all-inclusive group for rope lovers of all styles. 

If you love to tie or be tied, come join us!  

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Our Mission Statement

All Tied Up San Diego is a group for adults, 18 years and older, committed to the safety and education of both Tops and bottoms interested in having rope as part of their experience. 

Providing opportunities for the rope community of San Diego to come together, practice, and share their love of rope.  

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What We Believe

We believe that education comes first - then the experience. 

If you are a new Top or bottom, we want to help educate you so that you have a great experience.

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What We Offer

Our Experience Courses offer instruction in a form of Japanese shibari and western style rope bondage. 

Classes range from beginner to high-intermediate level rigging.

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Great class that teaches you the basics but it was also so much more

Rated 5.0 out of 5
June 6, 2021

I took the intro class at ATU because I was interested to learn about rope and I have to say the class was super fun and the events that the organization host are even funner. During the class I learned about negotiation, safety and some basic rope skills. For someone who knew nothing about Shibari this was perfect. Dan and Renee where welcoming and non-pretentious about their craft. Now that I have attended that class, I enjoy going to their community events. This community has become the only way I meet other people who I choose to tie with since I know if they have been to the classes they are learned how to do rope safely and consensually.

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Dita

Learning the Ropes

Rated 5.0 out of 5
December 13, 2022

What a pleasure it was to attend Dan and Renee’s Getting Started course & lab with ATUSD. Despite a lengthy tenure in the “kinkdom” I appreciated the specifics shared during this class, particularly aspects surrounding communication and safety. I left feeling more secure in my exploration with rope, using it as a conduit to deepen intimacy, communication and trust. Thank you!

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ATU - an incredible kink COMMUNITY

Rated 5.0 out of 5
June 6, 2021

It’s been a LONG pandemic year and I’m so very thankful to have had this amazing community to connect with throughout it all. Between virtual Munch events, group Slack conversations and virtual classes, ATU has kept us tied together (see what I did there?). And last night -OMG FINALLY – our first in-person Munch in what felt like forever! What a fabulous night! Thank you, Sir Knotty Dan and Renee for organizing our first in-person event after such a long hiatus. It was SO FREAKING EPIC to hug friends again, catch up with people in a way that is just so challenging to do online and meet new folx as well! You helped us feel safe and supported. I’m so thankful for this amazing community that you’ve created and I’m still in afterglow from the evening.

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